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For some, humiliation ramps up the erotic intensity of the act by a bazillion. This can come from watching their partner with someone else, or some extra humiliation thrown in for good measure, like being laughed at or belittled by their partner and the bull. Example of rule: You can be with any man you want, but you’re only allowed to give him a blowjob/handjob/kiss/vaginal sex/anal. Give it some time before moving on. A couple of weeks later you may want to ask her how her first sexual encounter was and whether it was as awkward as yours. Come from a place of sincerity and a real willingness to know (throw in some humor). She may relay a silly story or something that happened. The idea here is to get her comfortable talking about her prior sexual experiences with you, without feeling like you're asking for juicy tidbits. If you also share a little you'd be surprised how much she'll disclose to you. Doesn’t matter if she’s on a private date or blowing some guy in front of you if you mention/text your safe word it stops instantly.

You both need to understand that and make sure your bull knows he is just their to fulfil a fantasy/scenario.This isn’t common and I found it was more for couples where the wife wanted to be shared and it was her idea. If you’re not quite ready to go looking for a bull, you can get off on listening to your partner talk about sex with someone else.

As a rule of thumb the hornier you are the easier it will be to deal with the angst once the lay begins.

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It’s easier to find a guy for a threesome, literally get on Tinder and you’ll have a guy within an hour. As the bull, you’re the third party that gets chosen to come into the relationship. The main draw here is getting to have no-strings-attached sex with someone who is eager and willing. Ulrika was big in the UK in the 90s and during the naughty aughties (2000–2009). Every schoolboy had a thing about her and she probably was the most masturbated to woman among young teens for a generation. She was and is a bit vacuous, which is why I relate to her well. However even if you've dealt with all potential risks there will still be a significant amount to deal with that's unknown that you need to be prepared for. The first thing you will need to deal with will be your wife's excitement and nervousness that comes with any new sexual partner. This is typical as you can imagine of any new partner. Think about how you first felt when you met your wife. Butterflies in the stomach and the imagination running wild. This is completely normal and you must remember this is why you are entering the lifestyle, to give it some horns! And because you'll be part of the comms (as mentioned above) you must make a point to enjoy it with her.

My wife and I are very close and we have a great sex life, but I have fantasies of her "DOING" other men - thanks to your book I discovered how to talk to her about my fantasy." - Bob & Susan Downsides could be bad communication and jealousy. I suppose emotion could get in the way, and she could start falling for someone. But that hasn’t happened to us.This is a great place to start, you’ll be able to feel out if you are emotionally ready for more after seeing your wife kiss a new man. Being honest about your desires and sharing that the idea of inviting someone else into your sex life takes some serious courage. You owe it to your partner to hear them out without any judgment. Once you're comfortable with your own cum get your wife involved when the two of you are playing. If the bull still allows you to come inside her, ask her if you can go down on her afterwards or for her to sit on your chest or face afterwards. Most girls are always keen for oral so this shouldn't be an issue. If you still feel like you've lost the urge after coming, give yourselves a 10 minute breather and then climb in. At this point you should be well versed and comfortable consuming your own semen. Communicate and let her know that you get turned on at the thought of her with another man. 2. Window shopping.

Before you do anything you need to set rules and then set the tone that if these rules are broken it’s classed as cheating in your head and explain that the relationship will be over. You can keep escalating at your own pace, see how it makes you feel seeing your wife show you how easy it is for her to get f**ked by a hot guy. Public Sex Toys: Get a remote control love egg and have her wear it outside, even better both go to a night club with it in.

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Depending on the pace of the foreplay, at some point your bull is going to want to penetrate your wife. Firstly you need to make sure that in the heat of the moment he hasn't forgotten about the condom and that he's got it on properly. If not you need to remind him of the rules. First time play always requires a condom in our books. Now, you need to understand that the next minute or so will define the rest of your sexual identity and life. Enjoy it as far as possible.